Verryl Fosnight is a retired physicist, who has recovered from raging anger after 32 years of experience with his addictions of alcoholism, codependence, and relationship addiction. He is an insider expert about therapy, hospital programs, workshops and anger management classes, none of which worked for him on his anger. But the recovery lessons he learned and his acceptance of his own emotions as healthy but often skewed into calamitous feelings and behavior, allowed him to recover from “A lifetime of losses and pain” which caused his anger. He supports his understanding of his experience with detailed references to the recovery literature.